Book description
Lucy Wadham's first work of non-fiction is a candid and funny
account of her long and tumultuous love affair with France, her
adoptive land. At the age of eighteen Wadham ran away from English
boys - who she found emotionally immature and sexually unconfident -
and into the arms of a Frenchman. She soon discovered that romantic
relationships in France were fraught with their own set of problems:
not only do the French put women on a pedestal, but both sexes are
required to act out the sort of seduction games that disappeared from
English society centuries ago. Wadham, who dressed in Doc Martens and
baggy jumpers, struggled to fit in . . . Twenty-five years later,
having married in a French Catholic church, put her children through
the French education system and divorced in a French court of law,
Wadham examines the profound and varied differences between the
Anglo-Saxon and French worldviews. Using her own experience, as a wife
and mother, and later as an investigative journalist for the BBC,
Wadham explores French attitudes towards sex, marriage, adultery,
money, work, happiness, war and race, and in so doing reveals much
about our own priorities and the nature of our identity. The Secret
Life of France challenges our preconceptions and debunks many of the
myths - bleak and rosy - on which our view of France rests. Might we
have something to learn from this most infuriating and contrary neighbour?
Lucy Wadham was born in London and educated at Oxford. She has
lived in France for the past 20 years. Her first novel, Lost, was
shortlisted for the Macallan Gold Dagger for Fiction. She is also the
author of Castro's Dream and Greater Love.